Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, 20 May 2013

Beyonce's Uncle Develops A Case Of Diarrhea Mouth And Tells All Her Business...Like She Didn't Love Jay-Z


Beyonce Knowles

Just when I thought this day couldn't get any better. The uncle of singer, Beyonce Knowles, spilled some of her secrets to the press, especially an unflattering one about her husband, rapper, Jay-Z. Beyonce's mother's brother, Larry Beyince let the cat out of the bag and the truth like Jay-Z is not pretty.

Beyonce's uncle stated regarding the singer and husband Jay-Z, "He was after her and she wasn’t. She told me she wasn’t too particularly fond of him. "I would see him with her and pictures of them, I heard rumors they were together and she told me ‘no.’ You know how women get that look like ‘eww.’ I guess she wasn’t attracted to him. "But as long as he treats her well and makes her happy, that’s all I ever wanted. He’s okay with me."

A man doesn't have to be gorgeous for a woman to fall in love with him (being nice goes a very long way). However, when a man is not considered hot and is also mean, thieving and treacherous on top of it, as many of Jay-Z's former associates, business partners and employers have stated about him on record, that's a complete no go. 

Beyonce married Jay-Z due to all the career promises he made her when he started managing her solo career. Her soulmate was a man named Lyndall, who lives in Texas. However, it was stated her family broke up the relationship believing he wasn't going anywhere in life and they wanted her to be famous. He went on to become a chef, which is a good profession. While she is stuck in a marriage to an unfaithful, controlling, spendthrift (spending her money might I add) who many have referred to as abusive and violent.

Family and friends really shouldn't interfere in people's love lives. Giving advice must always have boundaries, lest you mess up someone else's life in the long run, pushing them to or away from someone. People know who they are in love with, but when other people start giving them advice on who they should or should not love, they can inadvertently send them down a path God never intended, riddled with trouble and heartbreak.  

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Beyonce's Uncle Exposes Family Secrets

Friday, May 17, 2013 - Kelly Rowland started something when she revealed her true feelings about Beyonce on her new single 'Dirty Laundry [click here if you missed that]', because now one of Beyonce's uncles is doing the same thing by revealing Beyonce was forced into show business by Mathew Knowles and that she didn't really want to marry Jay Z...

Tina Knowles' brother Larry Beyince gives a candid interview with Celebuzz that is sure to rattle Queen B.

On Beyonce Before Becoming Mrs. Jay-Z...

"He was after her and she wasn’t. She told me she wasn’t too particularly fond of him. "I would see him with her and pictures of them, I heard rumors they were together and she told me ‘no.’ You know how women get that look like ‘eww.’ I guess she wasn’t attracted to him. "But as long as he treats her well and makes her happy, that’s all I ever wanted. He’s okay with me."

On Beyonce Getting Married...

"I was surprised she married him. I think she got tired of being alone. When you have as much money as she does she has to be careful about people wanting her for her money. And apparently he had as much as she had. "I don’t think the family cared. Just that whatever he’s doing he’s making money [and] made it okay."

On Beyonce's Father Mathew Knowles...

"I wasn’t surprised she fired him [as her manager]. I’m glad, actually. "I know he was getting 20 percent of whatever she made, and from what I know he wasn’t doing much for her. All I knew is that he wanted her to be famous and rich so he could be rich. "One reason I was glad she got married is because she was no longer under her dad’s control. He is a control freak."

On Beyonce's Early Rise To Fame...

"She didn’t want to be famous. She just wanted to be a normal child. She loved to watch cartoons and be with her friends. "She was forced into singing. "It took away her whole childhood. Everything was geared toward being famous. She used to get angry at [her father] a lot for taking away her childhood. That affected her. "I would prefer she was just my little niece, but she’s a lot better off than most women."

Wednesday, 24 April 2013

Be Careful Of Letting People Control You In Relationships

Do Not Let Another Person Take Over Your Life



Still from the movie "Misery"

In relationships, there is a difference between concern and control. Some people's behavior veers into territory that goes beyond being concerned for the welfare of their significant other, to trying to downright control them. Considering God gave us all free will and the right to make our own decisions, no one should try to take that away, especially someone one is romantically involved with.

Beware of people who try to control where you go, what you say, what you do and who you talk to. Beware of people who are overly jealous. Be glad that your significant other is so great others think so as well. As long as the person isn't trying to break you and your significant other up, what's the harm.

Beware of those who try to isolate you from your family and or friends. That's a psychological move and that person is messing with your head to control you. It's one thing for a concerned girlfriend or boyfriend to question if it's safe for you to hang out with a friend that's a criminal (you know, something like "sweetie, you sure you wanna get into a car with your gang banger friend, I'm just saying..." - see: drive by shooting).

It's quite another thing when someone you date begins to nitpick your family and friends giving you a million reasons why you should spend less time with them, if any at all. Someone who truly cares about you will want you to have good, healthy lasting relationships with your family and friends, encouraging you to improve said familial and friendship ties. 

Keep relationships in perspective. God gave you a mind. Use it. what happens if and most likely when, you break up, because a controlling relationship where you are being completely domineered usually ends in disaster.

What about your family, friends and potential business associates, you've offended for this jealous, neurotic, controlling person. The funny thing is in many cases, family will try to warn you the person is all wrong for you, but you didn't listen. What about others you met during that time who would have been better for you, but the person told you so much garbage about them in trying to isolate and control you out of jealousy, you behaved in a funny manner that drove them away. Be careful of burning the wrong bridges, as some aren't easily rebuilt.

In life it is always best to use sound judgment and temperance. Learn to stand up for yourself and what you believe. Avoid engaging in conduct that harms others, because someone egged you on to do so, though your God given conscience warned you that you were going down the wrong path. Relationships are supposed to bring you happiness, not worry, anxiety and stress.  

Wednesday, 3 April 2013

Marrying For Money


A good friend of mine married a millionaire years ago, because she thought he was stable and would be a good provider. She didn't marry him for his money per se, but his financial stability was the dealmaker. However, she really wasn’t in love. Now she’s miserable. He’s kind of getting the picture that she married him because he was a friend and good earner, but her heart wasn’t in it.

The man she was actually in love with didn’t have his act together at the time. He wasn’t bad or anything, just undecided about what he wanted to do with his life. Not long after he figured it out and is doing very well (he went to med school). Now she has regrets.

Women shouldn’t sacrifice love, as it is very important. You can’t beat the feeling you get when you’re in love. It's priceless. Your true love may very well be rich. Then again, he may not be. But you shouldn't judge a person based on how much or little they have in the bank.

Marriage is a serious commitment. It’s supposed to be for, "For richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health..." Money can disappear just as fast as it appears. To enter into a marriage because of it is not a good idea. At least love lasts.